“The world had shrunk by then to become them.” -Noy Holland, Bird, in describing lovers

                This one scares me. One of the wonders of love–of sex–is how it redefines the world, how it obsesses, how it makes a universe of one touch or one room or one song you’re singing together. Each touch, each room, each song probably is that deep, so love’s (lust’s?) obsession doesn’t lie to us. It tells the truth: here, just here, is everything.
                As far as I can tell, that’s true–and that’s a lie. That’s one of the gifts love gives, and that’s one of the curses it casts. There is so much outside of “them,” of “us,” even if “us” means lovers. There are the friends we each have and the work we each do and the ways we affect the world. Even that phrase, “the world,” is one of these loving, shrinking redefinitions: when I say “the world” (as in, “the end of the world”) I often mean more than just this planet. I mean everything. I know (at least intellectually) that there’s more out there, but I love this rock, with its blues and its greens. And so the universe shrinks to become Earth.
                All that makes this question sound abstract, but for me, it isn’t. When I’m falling into romantic love, I want to fall in deep. I want to hold her and listen to her and look at her. I want–or part of me wants–the world to shrink to become just us. If I do that, I discover something: the depth of a moment, the realization of a touch, the glimpse of another. If I do that, I’m worried I lose something: everything that was outside of just us. I think there must be a rhythm that includes both: a kind of heartbeat that balances a shrinking world, intense, intimate, involved, and an expanding one, inconclusive, opening. But my heart doesn’t seem to have learned how to beat like that quite yet.

“We were young, we were reckless, arrogant, silly, headstrong…and we were right!”
                -Abbie Hoffman, in describing himself and other young activists

                If I step into my life, I feel a difference between the passionate creation of working on something and the careful discernment of refining it. The first is writing; the second is revising. The first is throwing things into a pan, excited and not quite sure about how the flavors will mix; the second, I imagine, is learning a recipe, though I’ve almost never done that.
                When I was younger, the first was a lot easier. Stories happened to me. Ideas grabbed me and carried me, and threw me into rivers to swim. That still happens, but it doesn’t happen as much. As I get older, the second is easier: I can see the cracks in something I’ve started, the contradictions, and I can work away at mending them. Maybe my mind used to feel like a wild orchard, long gone to seed, with unexpected fruits growing on every side. If that’s true, then these days my trees have fewer fruits, but I’m better at tending to them. Maybe the change comes from my habit. Maybe it’s getting older. Maybe there are two different kinds of thinking.
                In any case, my high school students almost always seem more inclined to the first than the second. They think in bursts of inspiration; they don’t often want to go back and fill in the holes of a path they’ve already run. I’m often tempted to push them to revise, but reading Abbie Hoffman, I’m not sure if that’s a good idea. If I had known how hard it was to write a novel, I’m not sure I would have started. If I dwelled a little more on how hurt my students are, on how much they’re struggling, I think I would realize that what I can do would never be enough. That’s what I realize on the bad days. On the good days, I look at the person in front of me, and I try. Maybe that’s what Abbie Hoffman did: he was reckless, arrogant, silly, headstrong. He didn’t understand the impossibilities. He was insane enough to think that a few kids could change the world. And they did. There is a place for wild creation, and it’s often by going there that we face the challenges that would otherwise be too much for us.
                Of course, there’s also a place for revision, for careful planning, for compromise. Earlier in that speech, Abbie Hoffman said, “We ended the idea that women are second-class citizens.” I don’t think he did that. He tried to: he thought he did. With the passion to fix the world with one great burst, he pushed us toward where we need to go. Perhaps that push must be tempered, continued, directed by minds who revise, who see the roots of our sicknesses, the complications of changing any piece of what we do. These other people will help, and when they get tired, I hope we’ll have another reckless, arrogant, silly, headstrong child to lead with wild inspiration.
                I wonder if we can be both. I’d like to think we can.

                “A spell is not instead of a thing. It is only to help that thing.”
                                -Diana Wynne Jones, The Magicians of Caprona

                “We already live in a world of flying robots killing people. I don’t worry about how powerful the machines are, I worry about who the machines give power to.”
                                -Randall Munroe, xkcd.com/1968

                I tend to think of magic as a replacement for movement, or science, or effort: the mop figures go marching down to gather water, while the sorcerer’s apprentice sits back to conduct the music. A unicorn’s tears wash the wound away, as though it had never existed. But maybe magic–real magic–isn’t a replacement for work; maybe it’s the way that insight, creativity, study and experience can take our efforts and support them, carrying them further than we thought they could ever go.
                Monroe offers a similar thought, but in his world, it’s darker. We make movie after movie about the “rise of the machines,” about the steel faces who turn on us, but the real worry (he says) isn’t then. It’s now. We’re not making Skynet: we’re making poor decisions, day after day, year after year, to alienate others and pollute water and turn toward war as a solution. If we listen to Diana Wynne Jones, a spell wouldn’t wash away all fear or remove the technology that lets us make weapons. A spell would give us a little help as we struggle to deal with that fear, as we decide what to do with that technology.
                I read a good comic a few weeks ago. A mother and her son, teaching holding cell phones, are sitting on a bench in the park. Across from them is another bench, another mother and son, but these two are holding books. The first mother looks over and says, “I’m so jealous. How did you get him to read?”
                Children’s books tell children what we think, what we value, how we approach challenges. They don’t give us answers: they give us a way to look for answers. It’s nice to be a child gain, to listen to Diana Wynne Jones. It’s nice to grow up, and practice humming something that might be a spell. Perhaps this melody will help (a little bit) what what I’ll do today.

                “A drawing is simply a line going for a walk.” -Paul Klee

                This week I did something I haven’t done in a long time: I drew. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve put a pencil on paper fairly regularly in the last years. I’ve made grocery lists. I’ve written poems. I’ve filled in o’s. I’ve even, a few times, made funny faces on post it notes to put on someone’s window. But on Monday, I drew.
                My friend helped me. She teaches art. I kept getting frustrated, kept getting lost, kept feeling like I was at a dead end. I like sculptures, I like words; it’s nice to be around things whose language you speak, but with a pencil, I’m a baby spitting up on myself. Sometimes my friend asked me to look at the values on my page, at the values in the shoe I was drawing. Mostly, when I asked “What do I do now,” she just said, “Keep drawing.”
                I remember my dad asking me to go walk with him. I always wanted to know how far, and even if I knew how far and agreed, I wanted to get there and get back. I don’t think those were really walks. Since then, sometimes, I’ve found myself out on the beach or under the trees. I’ve found myself listening to a friend’s ideas, or watching how the ice melts, or gathering the cold in my hands. I’ve gone for a walk, not knowing where or when it ends, but following it.
                I think that’s how walks work. If Klee’s to be trusted, that’s how drawings work. Just now there are puddles in the woods near my house. Just today a friend came to see me, and our conversation stepped from thought to thought. Just now there’s time and space to walk.

                “Ruins, for me, are the beginning. With the debris, you can construct new ideas. They are symbols of a beginning.”  -Anselm Kiefer
                “There is life outside your apartment–” –Avenue Q

                Supported by a Watson Fellowship, my friend spent a year climbing fences, finding abandoned buildings, and making art about what she saw. I was in Germany (through Amherst’s Schupf Scholarship–thank you, Mr. Schupf!) during her Berlin tour, so I tagged along to Beelitz-Heilstätten and other places where vines and age and spray-painted figures pulled apart the brickwork and tore down the roof. Paint bubbled and fell. Stone crumbled. Roots dug. The metal stair of a spiral staircase broke beneath my foot. We spent a heart-thumping twenty minutes navigating a pitch-black tunnel by flashes from my camera. When she first told me what she was doing, I couldn’t understand her project–why set out to find these lost spaces? Strangely enough, in the time we traveled together, in all the conversations we had, I never asked her that question. Maybe sharing part of the adventure with me was the fullest answer she could have given. In any case, as went from room to room, I started realizing I’d stumbled into my own reason. There was a magic to these shattered places.
                Buildings, rooms–apartments–are one way in which we measure out this space, and call it ours. (It’s a bit like the vaulted ceilings of a cathedral: whenever you step outside, the space above you is higher than any room; the builder cuts off a piece of sky, he ties it to us, and now that its reference is a human, not a planet, the space seems larger while being smaller). They’re our redefinition of the world as our environment. Day after day, my friend showed me places where that definition–inevitably, inescapably–had crumbled. The trees came back. The grass came back. The words in newspapers, so important in their day, so racy or ribald or inspired, faded away on the walls. We were watching humanity’s insistence that we are the center of things, and we were watching it torn apart like wet paper, or, perhaps, like stone in the face of time. I loved those quiet rooms. I loved whispering with my friend. It felt right to lower our voices, although, really, it felt even more right to walk quietly, witnessing the change, the rubble, the end that was not an end but always a kind of beginning.
                Avenue Q was uproariously funny, but it wasn’t just funny. I was in my senior year in college, and I watched adults around me double up over the lines, “I wish I could go back to college / In college you know who you are.” That was a little threatening. They looked like they had their lives together. They looked like they knew, more or less, what they were doing. And here they were laughing about how lost they were. Was it true? Was that where I was headed?
                Ten years out, I can say, yes. And no. More importantly, I can remember the buildings with fallen walls and open ceilings. We work so hard to manufacture a moment, a place that is ours, but I think I’ve always been more inspired–and, in truth, more at home–in spaces that have something of mine and more of everything else. When I manage to build my walls, to order my room, I end up pretty bored and lonely. When I’m outside my apartment, when there’s someone else walking by and a storm blowing in and the sun’s going down and something furry just moved in the grass, rattling dry leaves, I feel more alive. I feel like I have more of myself. Perhaps that’s because, in that space, all life doesn’t have to come from just me.

                “We affected an air of complete boredom and the feeling that nothing was worth making an effort for. One result of my illness has been to change all that.” -Stephen Hawking describing his Oxford days in My Brief History

                Most of us don’t flourish handkerchiefs like Hawking did when he was a student (which is a pity, really),  but I see a lot of that feigned indifference. I see it in young people, brilliant and capable, who push their minds into whatever shallow advertisements are pushed toward them. I see it in people who can and who don’t, or who might and still don’t begin. I see it in myself. It’s tempting, oh so tempting, to not care. To stop trying. To pretend or try to believe that nothing’s worth making an effort for.
                For me, I think, that comes from fear. Fear that my efforts wouldn’t be ‘good enough,” that I wouldn’t be suited to the task I took up. Fear that, no matter how well and how hard I work, I couldn’t make a difference. Not with what’s in front of me. I wonder if you ever find yourself in that place. If you do, I wonder what leads you there–and what leads you back out.
                Hawking tells us what led him out. After he was diagnosed with the disease that took so much from him, he writes, “I dreamed that I was going to be executed. I suddenly realized that there were  lot of worthwhile things I could do if I was reprieved.” Later he adds, “What really made the difference was that I got engaged to a girl called Jane Wilde, whom I had met about the time I was diagnosed with ALS. This gave me something to live for. If we were to get married, I had to get a job.”
                We talk about what frightens us, but when Hawking saw the face of what he feared, he saw the stars behind it, too. He was going to die. Well, okay, but first he was going to live. Perhaps the opposite of fear is not courage. It’s hope. It’s love. It’s work for what you believe in. Hawking found someone he loved, and to marry her, he needed a job. That led to finishing his PhD, that led to his work. There was a world in front of him, and, for love and the chance at living, he set off into it in whatever ways he could.

“If I have seen further it is by standing on the shoulders of giants.”
                -Sir Isaac Newton (though it had been said before, so I suppose he borrowed it from one of his giants)

“This is not an American seminar. I don’t give a damn what any of you ‘think.’”
                -A Cambridge professor to her graduate class, as related to me by Professor Kim Townsend

                Earlier today, after a class spent thirty minutes trying to discuss The Little Prince, one of my students said,
                “Are you asking us what we think “growing up” means?”
                “No,” I said, after considering that for a moment. “I’m asking you to help me understand what Saint-Exupéry thinks ‘growing up’ means.”
                It felt strange saying that, but it also felt right. My job is to help young people discover, build, and share their ideas. I’m honestly interested in what they write and think. I want to hear their voice. But we can also get too caught up in raising our own voice. Maybe there’s a reason so many speakers always have a glass of water near to hand: we need to stop, and drink. We need to listen, and have a sip from the river that flows outside. I can’t listen to the river run when I’m still talking. I can’t listen to you, or Saint-Exupéry.
                The Cambridge professor takes all this a big leap further: from her perspective, students’ ‘thoughts’ on Proust are a dilution of the original wisdom. The goal isn’t to see your mind: the goal is to use your mind to see through the dimness in which you started to the light ahead. The goal is to learn from the text in front of you. I like that, but I’m uncomfortable with any learning that asks you to ignore your own mind. I like that, but I think old learning becomes useful when it grows in someone new. For that to happen, we need to learn. For that to happen, we need to let what we learn grow in our own soil. That means it will change. That means, in the end, it’s part of the text and part of us, and part of a new landscape.
                I should have told my student: “I’m not asking for what you see. I’m asking you to climb up on a giant’s back, take a good look–and then tell me what you see.”

                “There was a tendency to treat the short story as though it was as definable a form as the sonnet, instead of being just exactly what anyone of courage and imagination can get told in twenty minutes’ reading or so.”
                -H. G. Wells in the 1911 introduction to The Country of the Blind and Other Stories

                I started making my own collaborative storytelling game after a student showed me Dungeons & Dragons, and I thought, one, what an interesting way to build a story together, and, two, why is the rulebook so thick? I wanted a simpler system in which people could sit down at a table, make up characters, and set off into another world. I made one, and now I’ve played stories that never go where I expect them to. There’s the luck of the dice, and more importantly, there’re the choices of other players.
                Put a pin in that. We’ll be back, but first we have to visit a professor at Amherst. If you gave him a few garbled sentences, he’d give you back a keen look, a minute of silence, and then, “There are three really interesting things you might be saying.” He’d lay them out for you: three points of view you might have been moving towards. He’d give you their strengths, their weaknesses. He was probably one of the most learned people I’ve ever met. At the same time, he didn’t write much anymore. I asked one of his thesis advisees about that. She said, “Sometimes I think his critical ability washed over his creativity.”
                In reading–in writing–it’s become easier and easier for me to let the task of building get washed over by the concerns of my building-code inspectors. I don’t want my inspectors to put my builders out of work.
                Back to the table. Back to a group of people, their characters, decisions, and dice. If I look at the story my current group has built together, there are narrative choices I don’t really like. There are characters and scenes I would have done differently. That doesn’t really matter. We come together, we wonder and listen and argue, and I’m having a wonderful time mucking about. I’m learning a lot. I’m sharing.
                Maybe the code-inspectors should come back tomorrow. If the story we’ve told is empty or blind or egocentric, they should point that out, and we’ll try to do better. But until then, I don’t want to let the goodness or badness of a story make me lose the is-ness. I want to trust a story long enough to taste it. After that there are decisions. Before that–well, before that H. G. Wells has a mug of something. He offers it to us. He smiles.
                ‘This is a leap of courage and imagination,’ he says. ‘Have a sip.’

“I’ve got so much inside  /  If only you would listen–”
                -a child singing in The School of Rock; and yeah, last weekend, that musical made me cry.

“Mammals, [Cory Doctorow] said, and I paraphrase here and do not put it as well as Cory did, invest a great deal of time and energy in their young, in the pregnancy, in raising them. Dandelions just let their seeds go to the wind, and do not mourn the seeds that do not make it. Until recently, creating intellectual content for payment has been a mammalian idea. Now it’s time for creators to accept that we are becoming dandelions.”
                -Neil Gaiman, in considering how the internet will affect writers and writing

                I read about the dandelions, and started worrying about Ragnarok and the End of Art. If we follow Doctorow, won’t we fall faster and faster into a world defined by the easy, accessible, gravitational cuteness of cat videos? Won’t we doom ourselves to shallow art reaffirming simple assumptions, to echo chambers where others repeat what we already wanted to believe? To the kind of poem that looks great in front of a picture of a sunset, and fits nicely on my phone’s screen? Doesn’t that mean THE END?
                No. No, it doesn’t. For Gaiman looked, and beheld a pale horse; and his name that sat on him was Relax, and folks doing art followed after. I think we’ll be okay.
                (Quick tangent: touching, but not central. Doctorow’s mammal/dandelion idea is pulled from something my Amherst prof called r/K selection theory. Some species–dandelions, flies–have big, short-lived population booms when there’s a feast, and some species–whales, elephants, us–have smaller, more stable populations of bodies developed to live through famine. It’s a question of priority: should I spend my energy making a body that can walk across the deserts and survive, or should I hurry up, have a thousand kids already, and let this dandelion body, as it were, go to seed. All of which is super cool, and a great foundation for metaphors. So thanks, Doctorow).
                Tomorrow, in class, we’re reading a few pages that a student wrote. I doubt the pages would get her into Harvard. I doubt they’ll ever be published, and I know she could have spent more time polishing her phrases. All the same, what she wrote is going to help. She took an issue close to her heart, she struggled, she thought, she laughed, she learned, and she gave us something I think we can learn from. Because she’s one of them, her words will have an impact that ‘professional’ writing might struggle to match. I love the texts that have been passed down, the treasures handed through generations. But I also love what this sixteen year old can do with a young life’s experience, a heart’s hurt, a heart’s hope, and a few hours’ work.
                And it’s not just her. Lots of my students–all of them, I think–could write something that, while it might not last forever, could help their community think, heal, laugh, and grow. What else is writing for?
                So hurrah for the elephants, elegant and old, and hurrah for all the dandelions’ seeds.

                “Without Cora, he finds his thoughts lack direction. What, after all, is the point of observing this, of encountering that, if he cannot tell her, and watch her laugh or frown in response?” -Sarah Perry, The Essex Serpent
                “Surprised by joy–impatient as the Wind  /  I turned to share the transport–” -William Wordsworth

                In college, my friend Tauhid introduced me to a game: pick a word and make up an etymology for it. The only one I still remember is “ex-ist:” “ex,” he said, “like exoskeleton, meaning ‘outside;’ ‘-ist,’ like activist or accompanist, meaning ‘one who does.’ So to exist is to be someone who shares their thoughts, who goes outside. Maybe a thought doesn’t really exist until you share it with someone else. Maybe I don’t really exist until I talk to you.”
                (It turns out a lot of what he ‘made up’ is actually true. I wonder if he knew that, or if he was just imagining along the same lines as the Romans who said existere).
                I think we help make things true for one another. That can frighten me, because in that there’s a kind (perhaps?) of dependence, and I grew up with Wild West stories and the West Side Story guy who “never asked nothing from nobody.” But we do ask something from somebody. I would rather live that way than not, I think. There might be a kind of dependence, but we always were a web with many strings, vibrating to each other’s movements. And there’s a kind of joy there, too. We say, “You can depend on me;” why not admit that I depend on you?
                Recently I saw a mother talking to her young boy. He didn’t want anyone else to touch his new game. “But it’s a game for more than one person, isn’t it?” she said. “You can’t really play alone.” Sometimes I want to line up my ambitious friends, my students with their thoughts of “success,” my Wild-West-watching self, and tell that mother, “Remind us all again.”